You can argue all you want about how size doesn’t matter, but that’s just simply not true. There is a certain level of satisfaction that only a man with an adequate amount of assets can provide. Sure, he might have other redeeming qualities but at the end of the day, the size of his bank account really does matter.
Bad finances place a damper on any relationship, in fact it’s the main reason most relationships fail. You can’t keep dating the same broke guy over and over again, expecting different results. His hot factor won’t matter if he can’t pay for dinner after splurging on his designer duds. The fact is, swagger can’t pay the bills. Believe that you deserve an established man, and not a work in progress, and he’ll most likely emerge.
You can hope, wish and pray all you want for your life to change for the better. But, you may be your worst enemy in this situation. If you want to date a successful man, dress the part. Stake out millionaire hot spots, and spot frequenting those lame sports bars here your average bro is catching the game. By upgrading your situation, a worthy suitor is bound see your bet of confidence, and raise your a drink.
If you set high standards for your dating prospects, you should also be setting high standards for yourself. Take a look at your dating habits, look for any toxic trends such as jealousy or overbearingness. Set a standard for reducing the drama in your life and work towards becoming a better person.
If you have a habit of repeating bad dating patterns, your friends are likely aware of your relationship faults. Don’t be afraid to let them know that your standards have changed. Have them check you, and hold you accountable for your new set of standards. It makes it more difficult to break the deal you made with yourself, if others are aware of it. But also take a look at those around you, and make sure any toxic influences are cut out of your life.
Once you’ve completed steps 1-4, you’re ready to start dating. Start putting your plans into action and don’t accept anything less than you deserve. Dating is like a part time job, and it can get frustrating without instant gratification. Just because you might get lonely during the pursuit, it doesn’t mean you should give in to someone who can’t adequately support himself.
Don’t beat yourself up about your past dating mistakes. Everything happens for a reason, and if it wasn’t a fairy tale at least it was a lesson learned. Forgive yourself, and forgive those who have wronged you in the past. Don’t carry that baggage with you, since that will only weigh on a blossoming romance.
Size matters, but it’s not the only thing. Women tend to overlook downfalls when it comes to love, but don’t settle for someone just because they happen to be wealthy. Just like you can’t put all your stock in good looks, money shouldn’t be the only quality that attracts you to a person. Take the time to figure out if they’re right to you with in your own personal set of standards.
There are so many perks to dating a successful man that it’s easy to get caught up in the novelty. Always remember to check yourself and make sure your relationship is balanced. The best romances happen when both parties add value to each other’s lives, and the power is equally distributed between two people. Never let money be a controlling factor in your relationship.
How did you turn your dating life?